cmj, I know exactly how you feel. PCOS has caused me to be overweight and have some hair problems, but the right guy won't mind that.
I met my bf off of the internet and made sure he knew ASAP about my PCOS, its better to get it out there right away. You don't have to tell him about the hair, just keep waxing or plucking it. As for the weight, most guys don't mind some junk.
Just be yourself and you can find mr right.
