i think u are perfectly right to want to get a second opinion and to really think things through before going ahead. as much as u want to help ur sister, and as much as she wants, this, u have to consider all sides. u have to go through many injections and doctors visits, risk ur own fertility, and know that u have a biological child out there that is not ur own. the psychological trauma alone is something to think about. if u think u can and are willing to go through this, then more power to u! have a heart to heart with ur sister and explain these things, she may not be in the right mindset to think about u right now. best of luck with everything, and i hope that whatever decision u come to is the right one for u! |