Hello Newbie!
I am a Newbie to! I ws just diagnosed today after a long time of being told I was crazy!!!! You are not crazy either and you deserve respect and compassion for your feeling both mentally and physically. I would suggest discussing everything you posted here with a doctor, new or otherwise, and don't take no for an answer. That's finally what I had to do and now I have a diagnosis and I'm having the proper tests run. Have a vaginal ultrasound all a whole battery of blood work up done. That should get the ball rolling. Also, have them check your vitamin D and iron levels. Mine were both low.
I can't stress how important it is to make your concerns known and to make the doctors understand where you are coming from. They are there to serve you, not the other way around. I have been trying to get a diagnosis for 4 years and I finally got tired of all of them telling me my symptoms were because I was "fat and lazy". I actually got up and walked out of an appointment because a doctor shamed me about my weight and my "make' believe" symptoms!
Hang in there and respect and honor your body. Something is wrong and your body is trying to get you to listen to it the only way it knows how. Listen to your body and spirit and don't take "No" for an answer! You are beautiful, lovely and divinely inspired just the way you are. Honor that and the rest will follow! Be blessed!!!
