Honey Child & Kim - NEVER GIVE UP HOPE!! (see my sig). Dh and I did a lot when we were TTC.. pretty much everything other then IVF (we just didn't/don't have 10G to pay for IVF).
On my last visit to the clinic, I got pissed off (and told the Dr off-which is not like me) w/ the Dr and I didn't want to feel like a guinea pig anymore!! I was tried of being pumped w/ meds and the medical staff poking at me. We hated to have "schedlued" sex.. I hope you know what I mean.
DH booked us a holiday out to Alberta & BC where we had family... he said he did't know where the $$ is going to come from, but both of us are going to have a nervous breakdown. So a mth later we flew away for 2 wks. Although my peroids were never regular, I begin to learn the signs that I ovualted, and I thought that I ovulated before we left for our holiday.
So I figured that I would be having a peroid in Alberta (shi**ty I know, having a peroid on your holidays.. but oh well. Having PCOS, and having little peroids, I didn't really care having a peroid on my holiday). While in Alberta, my peroid didn't come. I knew I was under a lot of stress, so I figured that's the reason no peroid. Well, I picked up a pg test one day shopping in Calgary, did the test (just to rule out pg) the next day and it was POSTIVE!!
I told DH and he came running in and read the instrutions & asked me did I pee the right way? How else can one pee.
So I called my clinic here in Ontario and they advised me to take it easy, until I could get back and get checked out. Upon on our arrival back here, we ended to the clinic and did blood work. Sure enough we were pg!
The Dr's/Nurses at the clinic couldn't/can't explain, Dh and I becoming pg (without the clinics assists)! We proved the medical field WRONG! They always told us, that 'cause of my PCOS, we would NEVER become pg on our own and we would need to pay the BIG BUCKS to get pg (and it was never a guarennte).
Well we NEVER GAVE UP!! Somehow deep down, we knew we would be parents. Fast forword to today.. our due date is THIS Sat May 17.
I know it's hard, hearing ladies becoming pg, esp those ladies who become pg on a "opps!" or the couple just started TTC and become pg. But listen , hang in there!!! If I can help, pls let me know. I'm been there (3 clinics and 2 surgeries later), got the t-shirt and have had all the emotions that come with TTC.
*Baby Dust* to you!
Janet
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Originally Posted by HoneyChild  Kim -- ((HUGS)) I know how you feel...I think the same thing at times. Sometimes I wonder what exactly God has in store for me as well. Don't give up hope. Sending some good vibes your way. 
Bond Girl --  These boards are full of information and support. Good luck with getting your cycles straightened out. Please keep us updated. 
I hope everyone else is doing well! |