Yep... I always wonder about that too... whether I was the only one who felt like a blob sometimes. I feel like a tomboy 95% of the time. I felt feminine on my wedding day/night... but outside of that, it's rare. It's hard not to wonder sometimes what my DH sees in me that makes me appealing as a woman. Like the others said... you're not alone!! To be honest though, I'm so glad you asked so that I know now I'm not alone in those feelings. And yeah... wedding dress shopping can be so heartbreaking. Especially when you find that perfect dress that fits one day (and i still love my sister to death for telling me that the size didn't matter), and then when you go in for your first fitting and they have to let it out and aren't sure they can let it out enough. I was SO humiliated. Thankfully, I was able to lose weight before the day so the dress fit like a dream (a let out dream... but a dream nonetheless)... but man, I was in tears that day in the dressing room. Yet another day of wondering what my man saw in me. It'll all work out, you'll see... your day will be wonderful! |