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Originally Posted by Somewhat Damaged  For myself, and probably many others, I just don't feel feminine. I absolutely laugh at my husband if he uses the word 'sexy' to describe me because I don't feel that way, and haven't for a long time.
Maybe it has to do with the overabundance of testosterone. |
I agree. I don't feel feminine. I'm not actually overweight. But I'm extremely hairy and have to shave my moustache and chin area every day. I'm also flat-chested. Nothing feminine there at all. And yes, I've very high testosterone levels and low estrogen levels.
But though I'm not feminine I do have children. And I'm very strongly heterosexual. And I have a really great physical relationship with DH.
I regard myself as very definitely female but not feminine. And though I would never have
chosen to be this way, it's actually been a combination of characteristics that has worked very well for DH and I. He actually
likes having a wife with somewhat masculine features. It's been a positive contributory factor to our physical relationship.