I am overweight by 120 pounds and I know how hard it is to feel feminine, let alone pretty. Some things that help me....freshly shaved legs (although they can be hard to reach!); yummy lotions (one of my faves is the Kiran Forest fragrance from Gilden Tree)....massage it into your feet and feel amazing! Also, wearing flowy clothes, like widelegged slacks, helps me. And very soft fabrics, that beg to be touched. My dh likes it when I wear micro fibre, or satin, or chenille...anything very sensual. Also....learning HOW to wear and apply makeup, including lashes....they add some glamour! When the budget allows, getting a massage or having my hair styled. Those are just some of the things....maybe some of them will help you too! |