Gina32, we are forever getting those comments especially this one "why do you want to have a baby now when the child you have is almost grown up and ready to leave home". our answer to that is we have been able to enjoy our son and give him one on one attention and he can't wait to one day be a big brother. i honestly think it is no one else's business if we want a large age gap between our kids it's not like it was by choice.
