 Dont give up on her
I think Man said it the best. Even if she wants to take a break, send her flowers every now and then or touch bases with her. From what Deb tells me, they spiral down because of the hormones and I can see that with Deb sometimes. Its better on medicine. Occasionally she still gets upset about me leaving her the first time because she has a hard time letting it go, it wounded her in a deeper way than I could ever imagine and now I have to prove my love to her alot after doing that. Its ok though, I love her and leaving her was wrong.
I agree with Man, get her a good doctor and stay close. Dont hover if she wants space but dont leave either. If you love her, right now it is all about her and not you until she is on medicine. Think of it this way - she is sick and not on medicine. If she had diabetes with no insulin shots it would all be about her until she got her medicine. When people are sick they need medicine and with this disease, its the exact same thing.
One thing Deb needs is me to tell her I love her alot, so I do. |