 man here
Ok I have been known to be blunt at time so sit right down and dont take this wrong if I come off that way. How much does you hubby know about PCOS, cause at first I did not know anything. my LW and I did not even know she had this disorder until we got back to the States which was 2 years. Then after I had a name to the the problem I started reading everything that I could. We found out at about 7 years and about to see our 10th and yes I almost walked out.
Ok on to what you can do. Right now tell him your sorry but give him alittle space cuase face it men as well as women we need it. And right after a fight he needs it. When you find out tell him right up front, give him as much info as you can get ahold of. Then tell him there are meds to help. There was a time when my wife just pushed me away and it killed me but know we know there are times that we need to talk everything out. Let him know he is still the major thing in your life but you need his help with dealing with this. PCOS is not just something that effects you, let him know there are going to be big hills to climb and you need him there for all of them. I know I am glad I did not go to the extreme and leave my wife she is my angel and God himself sent her to me. People that get married know what I am talking about. Let him know he is your other half you just need help, and it will help for him to read up on it and get on these boards when he is ready I will be more then happy and talk with him. The Man of the Board |