I'm a newbie, but just thought I'd throw my 2 cents in:
I like the term "rainbowed." Usually go by queer, but rainbows are pretty!
I don't understand why people are consistently offended by confusion. Yes, some folks who come out as bi are experimenting and eventually wind up on one side of the proverbial fence, with a little clarification. Others don't. The labels are inadequate. That much is apparent. If everyone were questioning their sexuality, taking the time to try on different ways of being (instead of that ugly heteronormativity thing we've got now), wouldn't we be a healthier, happier world?
We are family. Perhaps siblings, or cousins. Lots of infighting. But family nonetheless. Especially here, everyone should be welcome. I'm not much for acronyms, but I say bring the whole fricking alphabet out to play. No one should be told they don't belong because they aren't defined enough, or don't fit into this new norm we are working on creating. We are already defined by what we are not. Let's make sure that this is still a home for everyone who doesn't fit in.
Much luv,
Truth |