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Originally Posted by hopethereis  Afro,
Thanks.At this point I don't know what to do even in communication.I certainly don't apreciate a couple things she said to me but I continually buy into the fact that these awful hormones can control/consume even rational decision making.She has always told me that I make her feel better when I'm around her except for the past 3 weeks or so.But it can't be enough just for me to make her feel better.As I mentioned,I really want to take her to the cleveland clinic as they have a wonderful program in dealing with women's health issues.
Did you feel that your everyday,rational decision-making was affected as well? |
Hey,
I knwo this is the guys board so please excuse me posting. I just wanted to let you know that there are times that I say and do things that I have no idea why I am. It's almost like I am floating above myself and watching myself get into fights and get crazy and I can't stop myself. I will even know I am being irrational in my head but my hormones take charge. But no matter how much I push my DH away the thing that makes me feel centered and sane is his presence. He makes me feel balanced when the emotional monster starts to take over. Give her a little space but send her a sweet email telling her how much she means to you and how much you want to be with her and help her.
Also, the you deserve someone better stuff is her insecurity not that she actually feels that way, she is trying to protect you from what she is going through. At first I was the same, always trying to protect my DH from my inner crazy but letting him in and letting him know whats going on with me has made our relationship stronger.
I hope it all works out for you. (By the way I am a little worried about the vicodin thing. I took it a lot for pelvic pain in HS and got addicted to it. Trying to stop taking it after that made pain feel worse then it actually was becuase I was also going through withdrawls.)
HUGS