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Originally Posted by MommaMcCoy  My husband doesn't care at all. Well, he says he doesn't care, and he acts like he doesn't care, but I'm sure there has to be a part of him that wishes I didn't have the stuff I have (excessive weight gain, nasty body and facial hair, terrible acne, etc.) It would only be human of him to feel that way, but he's never once made me feel bad over any of these things and claims not to notice hairs and zits. Not to mention I can't conceive a child for him, and I've bled for weeks and weeks at a time. He's got it rough, poor guy. But he never says anything negative. |
That's just like my Dear One! He is so kind and loving! I know he suffers, the mood swings alone would do someone in. But here he is, 9 years of marriage and PCOS still by my side. He even said last night that if it got to the point where I had to shave he would teach me LOL! So far I'm doing okay with meds and plucking. He says he doesn't see the hair, gain or loss of it, the acne, the weight gain. He says he doesn't see me as big, just me is all he sees. As far as conceiving a child, we're planning on adopting. But he says that even if that doesn't pan out he just wants to be married to me.
I could never have asked for anyone better! I know I have not been easy to live with. And I also have had libido problems. But we cuddle, hold hands, kiss, snuggle, all of those good things. It doesn't have to lead to sex, but just to affirm our love for each other. And when the time rolls around that I am in the mood WATCH OUT BABY! WOO!
To all the men out there who also suffer from PCOS, on behalf of women everywhere, thank you! Thank you for sticking with us, loving us unconditionally, for being a man and standing beside us and helping us!
Sorry, I'm getting all mushy. AF is due soon and PMS is a witch with a capital 'B'!