I agree with PP's. I feel very strongly that marriage is a lifelong commitment-- however you are dealing with infidelity, which if you are religious is usually grounds for a divorce, as well as financial and emotional abuse. Even if it is not his fault, you cannot be expected to suffer all these things indefinitely, especially if he is the one who wants out of the marriage. I say this as a person who suffers from a mental disorder and is very grateful that my husband decided to stick it out with me, so I am not biased in favor of breaking up, believe me. You have to take care of yourself first. Good luck to you and I hope you find the answer to your dilemma!
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Suzi and Lamar
PCOS and MF
TTC baby #1 since 2002
BFP March 2005!
Elisa Mari Walcott born 11-14-2005
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Surprise BFP June 2007!
M/C angel baby Emmanuella 8-15-2007
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TTC #2 since 9-2007
BFP!!!! 5/27/2008
Baby girl! 9/23/2008
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Eliana Imani Walcott born 01-26-2009
Thank you God my struggle with PCOS is over!
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