I hope you ladies dont mind if I barge in here for a minute. I read this thread alot, as well as the others on this board. I wanted to say a few things. First of all, I admire you all for doing what you want the way you want for your family. I've seen first hand the double standards and hatefulness that can be directed at the GLBT community. My dh is Bi and has had ALOT of really hurtful things said and done to him, even by his own family. You ladies are strong and I am glad this board his here. Second of all, I'm just wanting to say that I'm sorry for the m/c, hopeful for the cycles that are in or approaching the 2ww, and for those that are waiting to TTC, I wish you all the luck. TTC sucks no matter what configuration your family dynamic is. And lastly, while I don't have any questions (mostly due to the fact that I have ALOT of gay friends and asked all my questions years ago...LOL), I want to say that I think it's great you all are willing to openly answer whatever questions anyone has. The best way to beat the hate and get rid of the ignorance is to educate those that dont have a clue. I know it can seem weird to have to explain things about your life and family that just seem normal to you. One of my bestfriends is gay, and he told me one day "I don't get why so many people want me to explain why I am the way I am and why I prefer what I do. I mean, I don't walk up to straight people and ask them to explain themselves." And it's true. Herterosexual people don't have to explain or justify anything, but the GLBT community does. Not fair, but reality. It sucks that there are so many sterotypes nowadays. I wish things were different. Anyway, sorry to barge in here. I just wanted to say hi and tell you that I think you all are great on here, and I wish every single one of you the best of luck.
