thank you NDandiwal and anjali77, yes it does help abit. i am turning 27 soon, and my parents think its waaaayyy past time i got married! to be honest, marriage freaks me out! especially the idea of an arranged one. why would a guy i barely know want to marry someone who is going to have so many issues, including possible infertility? remember, we are talking about someone who is choosing you based on your looks, which frankly, i dnt have

am dark skinned, short, huge pot

i have enough problems dealing with my own issues, and Pcos, without the added stress of marriage, looking after other people, trying to have a baby stress...but i wish you guys the best, hope we will be hearing some good news soon

g'luck.