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Originally Posted by Sarah89  On a side note, the idea of being lesbian really isn't an issue or a concern for me; I'm not homophobic in the slightest. I'm just confused by it all... |
You tell me when you figure it out! I'm 27, and just wandered in to post something along the same lines. I've always tended more to the guy side of things, but my early crushes were always girls. It's been a looong time since I was with a girl (22? 23?), and we're only talking making out, never sex. I've ID'd as bi since I was a teen, as I've always known that I'm at *least* attracted to women AND men. It's not that big of a deal for me, as one of my aunts is a lesbian, so it was a non-issue in my family.
I've been single for a few years while I got set up in a new town. I saw an old flame this weekend (a guy) and while it was nice to get some action, it was less than nothing to me. I get excited about the possibility of a hook-up, but the minute we start anything, I'm thinking, "Oh well, I wonder how much longer I have to put up with this until I can go to sleep?". I have a good time, but I'm just not into it at all. Which reminded me that that's how it ALWAYS is with guys. I've never found a girl I liked enough (or they were already dating someone, etc), to go very far with so I just don't have any ways of comparing my experiences!
My question to you, and the rest of the ladies is this: For those of you who were with guys before you came out/solidified your feelings/etc, is this how you felt? I read coming out stories for girls that always seem to say, "Oh, I never got off with a guy, it grossed me out, etc", and neither of those things is true. It's more like I immediately realize I'm totally uninterested.