I know exactly how you feel and it is really hard for this huge event to be largely in the hands of someone else. I would just stay on top of her as much as you can stand it. The more you are in their minds, the faster your placement should be. They won't like it, but you are advocating for your child!
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Andrea(32) and Shawn(40) married 12 years
Mom to Leon (age 7, adopted in June '08) and Anna (age 5, born the EASY way in Jan '04)
Baby boy on the way!!!!!!!
Due 3/10/2010
I couldn't feel more blessed. |