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Bro, Great on you learning what you can about PCOS if this is what is going on. Now there are free clinic's or there use to me, am i showing my age here. That might be able to help I dont know male here. 2 nd PLZ PLZ dont buy the meds listen here on the internet just cuase you can IT might not be PCOS.
I know where you coming from not feeling wanted, we were in about our 7th year of marriage when something was not right, we were trying to have kids with no luck so we went to the doctors which was in Germany. Not the best of health care over there or at least i dont like how my wife was treated but thats a different story. You got to remind her you are there for her, I am telling you if you give the little things to help her it goes a mile. And by god TALK to each other about every little feeling you are having heres the kicker tho YOU CANT GET MAD and try not to make her mad as well.
I want you to know this is not a easy battle but getting thru it has Great rewards. If she is the one she is going to know and remenber everything you did for not only her but the relatation that you both have. Here another pointer, (its not always about you). You are saying retreating into her own world well she is. You see PCOS is wonder about making the ones we love hate the very skin they are in, and by god there is nothing you can really do but be there. If you want to totally kill the way she thinks about herself give up and leave. NO NO NO dont think of how it effects you when you are thrown aside. IF you have not IT SUCKS. so dont do this.
Your a step up my firend instead of running even with 3 years in you decided to stay. Learn what you can talk on the boards. I love my wife, I did not say until now we just had our 10 year anniversary yea i know i killed the word but you get what i am saying. Our relatation is wonderful I could not thinking about spending it with someone else.
I feel for you I really do but it gets better as time goes. This has been another Rant brought to you by TMofB. Ill be on the boards if you need to talk. I found a heaven when i found the info and just being able to post my feeling. |