I totally understand. I had major anxiety about my daughter's lonliness before we got our son. I mourned the fact that she would never have a sibling close to her age, then we adopted a little boy 16 months older than her and they are inseperable. I think it's a totally righteous desire to have a sibling for your son and I hope you figure things out soon. We are in that same stage - buying a bigger house, not sure when to proceed with another adoptiong. Might even consider more fertility treatments. I think these decisions are so hard. I wish you all the best in your journey and your litte boy sure sounds like a sweetheart.
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Andrea(32) and Shawn(40) married 12 years
Mom to Leon (age 7, adopted in June '08) and Anna (age 5, born the EASY way in Jan '04)
Baby boy on the way!!!!!!!
Due 3/10/2010
I couldn't feel more blessed. |