Ok. Let me start by saying that I am by no means trying to compare animals to children - LOL - but the reasoning I am about to speak of could apply to children as well. I do animal rescue and when we bring in a dog or cat to foster that has a history of abuse or neglect, we always change the animal's name. The reason for this (and how it could apply to a child who was abused or neglected) is because we don't know what negative associations might be attached to the old name. For instance, if a child only had his/her name called during anger then hearing that name might automatically bring up feelings of fear or guilt. By using a new name, new and positive associations can be built. Just a thought to consider. Of course that may not always be true but is something to think about.
Good luck and I hope Matthew gets his sibling soon. :-)
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Dawn (37)
DH - Adam
DD - Reagan Emily 12/3/08
TTC #1 Since 3/06 (no BC since 2000)
2008 TTC break to start our family via adoption.
Injects next up to TTC #2...when Reagan is a bit older!
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