This is how it worked for me:
Usually the hospital will call and schedule your pre-op. They take blood, check your blood pressure, pulse, temperature to make sure you are "in shape" for surgery. They will also check your blood type and check your clotting (to make sure you don't have any clotting issues).
The bowel prep is usually done before lap because they do not want your intestines or bladder to be "in the way" during the procedure. I received the packet of information from my doctor's office. It had instructions on when to eat what, etc.
I have a friend having lap done in 2 weeks. She also had not been told to do bowel prep or pre-op. I told her to contact her dr. The last thing you want is suprises right before surgery.
Just as an FYI - do not take any NSAID's (ibuprofen) a week before surgery. They also suggest no supplements or herbal treatments a week before as well.
As for time off - I did FMLA. I called HR and had them initiate the request. I was able to take off the time needed to recover from surgery. I highly suggest looking into this. It takes stress off of you so you can relax before surgery and take the time needed for a full recovery. I know you are TTC, so take care of yourself
