Wow I am really sorry for all the confusion. My dr took tons of photos and showed me after surgery - did you ask if there were photos so you could actually see? Sometimes that helps.
When will you get your pathology reports for D&C. I also had one during lap and it felt like a steel bat between my legs! I bled for about 5 days (but I'm a non stop bleeder anyways....)
Did they say there was endo? Did you have just one incision or many? I had many and that is because they had to clean and pull out cysts, etc.
Sounds like your dr may not be specialized?
I don't know if this helps but I went into surgery at 5'5 and 148 - not perfect, a little overweight and everything was able to be done to me successfully. I would ask for a better excuse - for sure.
Gosh, I feel so bad for you. All that pain and no answers. I would be terribly upset. My recovery was tough and surgery was long for me, but now I'm grateful I came out "cleaned out", thorougly checked, and with photos. You deserve the same.
Please keep us posted. I'll join your party
I'm having issues getting treatment...but I'm not going to bore you with that. Please feel better, rest.