hi, i've recently been diagnosed myself, i'm only 19 and its a scary thought to think what might face me when i'm older and i want to have a family... i don't know too much about it yet... all i can say to you is how it made me feel, it's like although there are thousands of woman who have it... including Victoria Beckham! (sorry but i found that really shocking) it feels like your the only one who feels this way... and no one understands how much it is playing on your mind.. so it can make you feel quite alone. which is maybe how she feels sometimes when she is quiet, all i can recommend is lots of hugs and kisses.. also another thing, my boyfriend was always asking me 'are you ok? i know somethings up'.. and was probing me to talk about it.. thing is i had no idea what i wanted to say... even-though there was soo much on my mind. so sometimes saying nothing and just showing you understand my doing little gestures, like buying her flowers and just letting her know that you are there can be the most understanding thoughtful thing to do.. thats what my boyfriend does now an it means the world.
i hope this helps in someway...
Becky |