Kudoos to Richard!
I have no doubt that your gf is a lucky lady to have a concerned and understanding guy in her life. The best thing my DH does for me is noticing the little things. Like if she changes her hair or gets her eyebrows done, let her know she looks great. Trust me a little complement from the one you love goes a long way for body image, at least for me.
Also, I know she is up and down and everywhere in between right now, but just keep being patient and caring. Many times my emotions go crazy with worrying about side effects of meds, treatment options, and my health future with PCOS. My DH often times just lets me cry on his shoulder and asks questions that let me know he is interested in my health.
This is no easy journey you all are on, but having a supportive person who makes you feel normal, and even beautiful, makes all the difference in the world! Keep up the good work, and remember to be patient! |