WOW! You remind me of my BF. What he can do as a man that helps me the most is 2 things:
1. When I become extremely upset - let me know that he understands why I'm upset by explaining back to me what he KNOWS is upsetting me. That is EXCELLENT for a man to do. (it will shut up the "you don't know what I'm going thru" argument).
2. Don't let me flop around, feel sorry for myself, or let myself go b/c there's something "wrong" w/ me. Sometimes you have to "be the man" really and put your foot down and be firm, even if it hurts her feelings. For example if she used to dress up, go out & do things that made her or the 2 of you excited about life. Don't let her push those to the side out of fear or disappointment. Or out of worry for this disease. DEPRESSION is real, & makes everything about PCOS WORSE. Besides...if it's said out of love, deep down she will understand and thank you for it later.
Keep up the good HEART!
Sister GBO
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