Reading your post, sent a lot of emotions off in my head. My wife is the best thing to ever happen to me. She's the love of my life and I don't know where'd I'd be now without her. Together, we've had one child, a beautiful daughter and we've had a miscarriage. We've been trying for another baby for a long time now, so long I've lost track, to be honest. My wife puts herself through hell everyday, with all the prescriptions she takes. the headaches, sickness, and pain she feels just so we can try to have a baby, but it seems every cycle comes and we try, even going as far as IUI for 2 months and still, no luck. It's frustrating to both of us. For me, I owe my wife a big thanks for doing all she does for us, all the pain and frustration she goes through. It can't be easy. I try my hardest to be a relaxer. I know I can't share the pain but I cant help her feel better and keep her relaxed. There's times I see what she's going through and I just want to cry. Maybe I should let it all out, maybe. I just want to make sure she knows I love her and I think she's the greatest, as do we all. As the husbands, I don't think we can ever truly understand from her point of view but I think we all need to take the most active role possible, doing everything we can. I know I haven't been the most interested or the best listener during this, but I signed up here to begin being that person. I just want her to know I care and love her more than anything in the world and I want to be able to celebrate with her the day we do suceed and have one on the way. |