Thanks to both Go Figure & SandV for the compliments. While they are encouraging, a little perspective is in order: I've been together with my wife for 20 YEARS (15 of them married), and I've largely been a complete PCOS idiot.
I hope your DH's (just figured out what DH means - it's not Designated Hitter!) don't wait as long as I did to help shoulder the burden.
Here's what I've decided to do: over the holidays, I'm going to compile some sort of plan to deal with the PCOS using the resources available to us. Then around the new year, I'll have that heart-to-heart with DW and see what she thinks. I hope she'll be excited about it, but we'll see! In the meantime, I'll be posting my progress here.
I'm taking into account every bit of advice I'm getting here at this site ~ so thank you!
