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kimmy-ki · 12-16-2008, 08:19 PM

MailLady--Your story is incredibly painful and happy all at the same time! I cannot believe that the birth mom of your adopted child had so much time by law to change her mind. That must have been living hell and of course, the fact they took Emma from your arms is just horrifying. I do not think that law is in the best interest of the baby, the BM or the adoptive parents! NO WAY! Here in Mexico BMs only have 48 hours after the birth to change their minds. I think it is better because the baby staying in foster care for a month and then changing hands twice is so wrong!

I am very happy that your story took a turn for the better! You are an inspiration. Congratulations on the upcoming birth of your daughter!!!!

I suppose there are all sorts of reasons why things happen the way they do. I have perfect cycles, my hormonal levels look fine despite being nearly 40 but I simply cannot get PG. I only got pregnant once (after a failed in-vitro cycle, so I think my hormones were pumped up) but it ended in early miscarriage. For nearly five years, I have tried everything from fertility treatments to herbs to not eating sugar and doing acupuncture, but it seems like my eggs are just not good because they don´t stick. Anyway, now that we are in the adoption process I feel so certain that in my case there is a reason that it´s not working out... I just feel like my adopted kid(s) are out there waiting for me. We'll see what happens (my story has not ended yet)--but I do agree that whatever happens does so for a reason!!!!