Well, with our bm she told us that reason she picked us was b/c my dh played the guitar and she loved the fact that ds would learn how to play it as well. Also she loved the fact that we weren't showey. That we were down to earth ppl and that our house wasn't huge and that we were normal. Apparently that is how our profile read. I am glad of it. It was all true..but I couldn't get past other profiles that I had read and we weren't like any of them. They all went on vacations, were in their 30-40's and had huge homes and talked about what they did as a profession.
Each bm is different as is each adoption. That is what makes it work in my opinion. The bm has all of the choices...but if it were up to the adoption agencies there would be a pick a number and you have no idea on how long that it is oging to take it.
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