I guess I would want to ask him why he wouldn't want to adopt? It could be for so many reasons and until you know those reasons you really will have a tough time making a decision as to whether or not this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. I have to say though if you are questioning whether or not he is then you owe it to yourself, him and your potential children to ask yourselves the tough questions. I for one vote NEVER settle on anything less than all that you need. Good luck to you. I hope things work out just as your heart desires!
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