Hi again Glenna,
I definitely vote for counseling--couple and individual counseling if possible. This impasse requires serious soul searching on both sides and I think having a professional guide you through that process would be very helpful and reassuring for both.
DH and I are in counseling as part of the adoption process (upon advice from the agency) and I can't believe how much it is helping us even though I didn't consider beforehand that we had a problem! The recommendation was made because DH has a daughter from his previous marriage and the psychologist at the agency felt it was important for us to address specific issues related to her. In just a few sessions, our communication has improved 100%--now we talk about all sorts of feelings, impressions, etc. outside the therapist's office that we never talked about before. I used to be a real skeptic of therapy but now I am a big fan--especially if you can find a therapist who you are both comfortable with. I just wish it wasn't so expensive--but so far it has been well worth everything we've paid!
Good luck!!!!
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Kimmy-Ki
TTCing since 4/04--now 40 & fab!
2 precious angels: 1/07--"Faith" m/c 6.5 weeks;
2/09--m/c 8.5 weeks
3/09--Accepted for adoption
4/5/09--Surprise BFP after D & C! Lovenox for APA
6/16/09--It's a beautiful boy!
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