I would be very careful about this. I know having a baby is very important to most of us here but you really have to look at your friend and how this will turn out two years from now. what happens if she get her life in order? what if she makes comments to you on how she would raise the baby you might feel a little obligated to to take her advice even though you don't agree. I'm just saying don't jump into it without thinking 2 or more years down the road. Good Luck in this difficult decision. |