I know that when my parents adopted my little brother the birth mother found us. There was no agency involved. And, I know that they paid V's (the birth mother) medical expenses... and she actually lived with us for a few months before he was born. I think, generally, the adoptive family pays for the medical expenses, at least - that's how I've always seen it done.
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