My sister's first child was stillborn at full term, this was ten years ago last August. I sent her a card, it was hard finding one that fit for the occasion. Most of the bereavement cards were meant for a recent loss, and the other cards didn't seem fitting. I did eventually find a card I thought fit, and I wrote a note in it letting her know that her child is not forgotten. I let her know that I knew how difficult August was for her, and that I missed her baby too. She said that meant a lot to her, no one else acknowledged the loss... it's been ten years, people just assumed she was over it, but I knew better. You never get over losing a child, you just learn how to function again. That baby will always be missed.
I think it's wonderful that you are thinking about her.
I'm sure that even just letting her know that you are thinking about her, and remembering too, will mean a lot to her. If you want, I think a card, or flowers, or a letter, would be a nice gesture too.
__________________ Stephanie 24 & DH 24 m/c's: 5/08, 3/09, 11/09
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