First of all I want to say I LOVE that a 16 year old not only knows the meaning of the word BANE but uses it correctly in context
Secondly...i know how utterly scary it is! I was diagnosed young myself, but it was actually a relief! that i had a reason for being fat and hairy and losing my hair and having dark spots all over my skin, etc etc.
If you do have PCOS, my best advice is just try and accept it and then own it!! I used to be SO VERY ashamed of my hair on my face..but after years of anguish i'm at a place where i can talk about being hairy to even a sexy stranger lol
i even shave or pluck with my husband, so it is possible to find happiness even with PCOS. Just love yourself, PCOS and all and realize it probably wont happen overnight, but only you can change how this disorder mentally affects you!
good luck and best wishes...Rena