Don't feel pressured to do anything until your ready. You can pass a gestational sac at home no problem (I did it twice) I was also going to pass a 14 week fetus (in hospital) but they could not successfully induce me and I had to have a D and C. The D and C is not that bad. You get knocked out completely so it feels like you close your eyes for a second and it's over. There was some cramping and bleeding for me for a few days afterwards but like I said I was well into my 2nd trimester when I had it so it might not be the same for everyone.
Also if you want to wait it out you can do it safely. I wait 12 weeks to pass my first baby. It was tough and I wanted to have help (drugs or D and C) but all my doctors pushed for me to wait it out and do it naturally so I did and I'm glad I did I guess.
The reality of it is that there is no "good" way for this to happen. It all sucks and it's a very hard thing to go through. Never hold back your tears just let them out. Grieve in whatever way you need to and talk to someone if you need to.
Good Luck.
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Mommy to 3 Angels
BFP 12/18/07-m/c Jan 08'
BFP 04/06/08-2nd m/c April 08'
BFP 10/15/08- 3rd m/c Jan 09' @15 weeks
onto recurrent pregnancy loss testing...
BFP 07/26/09-surprise natural BFP
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