Jen, I don't think you ever are "normal" again. It leaves some very remarkable emotional scars to have to go through this. Essentially it is an abortion... can you believe that some people actually do this to a healthy pregnancy? I had a D&C October 31st and it looks like I'm headed towards another next Wednesday. It stinks the day before my DD's bday we have to find out that we lost another baby. I'm going to try to make her bday the greatest I can... My body is doing the same thing essentially.. the same as my 16 wk loss. Absolutely no s/s of m/c. If I waited for it to happen naturally I'd wait forever. The bonus with the D&C is it's quick, relatively painless and less bleeding.
If you need support please let me know. You'll get through this. I know the outlook seems bleak right now but the future will be brighter. We have to have better days ahead of us. Somewhere within the depths of our souls we have to pull that courage we never knew we had and keep chugging along. Good luck and I hope everything is going well.
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Kristina (27), Dustin (28) & Ani Rose (6)The Johnson Fam est 10/26/02Two angel babies:16wks 10/08 & 9wks 03/09
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