Hi! We have been ttc for 4 years, and have done countless medicated cycles. Right now I am in my 2ww after an IUI w/ injectibles, and not feeling very hopeful. We are going to try our hand with IVF, but in the meantime, I think we should be open to adoption.
But my hubby is totally against it. He keeps saying once the money runs out (my insurance pays for IF up to a certain amount), we'll just have to be child-less. To me, this is a deal-breaker. I HAVE to have a child.
Is there any way I can go about convincing him, or does anyone have any resources for this situation. I am assuming this is not the first time. I love him dearly, but I honestly cannot go through life without a child.
I am panicking about this, and have been for awhile, since he said he will not adopt.
Of course, you talk about having kids before marriage, but you never discuss adoption...now I feel stuck.
