Had the same problem with my DH. We're just now this month ttc. And I told him that it could take a long time. He says "just go to the doctor and get it fixed". I think men don't really want to feel helpless and that's why he is disinterested and because at this point it's not affecting him or what he wants. I'd print something off for him and leave it in a place he'll run into it. He'll probably read it (even though he won't admit it). Maybe it'll give him some insight into what's going on and that it's an everyday struggle for you.
With my DH, I just gave him a little information over time. And one day I just sat him down for a talk. It really helped. It actually made us a lot closer for him to understand what we're going through. I think that is something men forget the "us" part. Maybe you just need to remind him.
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