Thank you all so much for the advice.
I have tried to talk to him, but he immediately shoots it down. I say, "Maybe we should look into adoption." And he says, "Absolutely not." When I ask why, he says things like there are "too many risks" and "I want my OWN baby." I think he may be thinking of horror stories of people wanting their babies back. Also, he is somewhat "old school" in a lot of his views, so that is part of it. I know him so well, and know if I can just get him to an informational meeting about it, he may slowly change his mind. I am just so sick of these treatments, and I want a baby NOW. |