mrsashleybell, i know a couple who adopted even though the mother was molested as a child. the reason they question things is because some people who were molested in turn molest also. but this is not always the case. as for my friend she had to have a psycological evaluation, and also get some personal references but was cleared for adoption. you have to look at it from the states view. they dont want to take a child from one situation and put them in another bad situation. but there are ways to get around this issue if your worker did not help you understand then talk to a supervisor. Refuse to let anyone come between you and that family your dream of. i have adopted 5 children from the state and only one of those adoptions was bad. so dont give up hope. let me know if i can be of any help.
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Angel 1 -4/06-5wks
Angel 2 1/08( stephanie grace) 6wks
Angel 3 2/09 (steven blestman) 8wks
Current meds: ba, prenatal, 2mg folic acid & B complex- Dx'd with PCOS 1/08
dx'd with mthfr homo. 4/09
Entering a clinical study for clomid/Femera-
Tammy-39-Steve 48-ttc 6 years
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