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R0xyg4l · 03-29-2009, 03:13 PM

I would suggest talking to your DH to try to get some of that emotions flowing. The ONLY time my DH would shed a tear is when I'm already quite emotional. I think once he thinks I am, it makes it ok for him too.

I'm surprised your MD said you could go back to work so soon. I asked my MD how long I need to take off and she said a week. Though in retrospect I'm like my goodness what am I going to do with myself?!? But I know I'll use the time to compose myself so when I do go back to work I'll hopefully be ready. I think when you've had a m/c. You run that chance of spontaneously busting out in tears at any time. You see a mother with a baby. You see someone pregnant. I can't tell you how many things have triggered me. Essentially, you should expect to feel emotional at times.

With my last m/c I didn't deal with it right away. I don't think the magnitude of it all hit me. So I m/c at the end of October but I found myself for like the whole month of January crying at the drop of a dime. As far as officially moving on whether it be in a physical or emotional sense, you just had a m/c hun. I don't think anyone expects you to be "over it" anytime soon. These things take time. You'll get there, but it's a process your body has control of. Try to mourn, try to cry, get all that emotion out. So that way you can move on, and know you've healed healthy.