Well, I have no bio children but 1 adopted ds. He was born in July 2008 and we finalized our adoption at the end of last year. For us adoption was something that I was going ot have to do b/c ttc was never something I wanted to do...dh wanted to try...so we did...anyhow, we started out adoption rollercoater in Nov 2007, 3 failed situations later we were matched with our ds's bm and 4 days later he was here! Crazy...but I can see God's hand in how every failed situation got us 1 step closer to ds...
Now that we have gone through it we don't know if we are going to do it again...we are actually going to ttc (more agressive on my part) in a couple of years...if that doesn't work we will for sure do adoption again. For us our adoption was almost $30K and it just tapped us out...there is no way that we would be able to do again the way we did it.. I have started praying about our future child(ren) adopted or bio...and it gives me peace...I know we will have more...just the whole part of not knowing is kind of scary and exciting at the same time...lol!
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