PCOS Message Board - View Single Post - Think I wish Someone had told me after my 1st M/C

R0xyg4l · 04-01-2009, 01:33 PM

I totally understand what you mean. If something is wrong you can fix it, if they find nothing then you always have that fear of it happening again. My mom remarried when she was in her 40s to a guy that had never had children of his own. She had her tubes tied and he had a vasectomy. She kept having all of these weird s/s, went in for a lot of tests and nothing was ever found. She's a nurse as well and a decided to take a pregnancy test and it came back positive. That was so weird for me lol she called me and told me when my DD was like 2 that she had a BFP. Unfortunately, because the problems she started having early on weren't caught or taken care of she had a m/c. BUT miracles can and do happen. Everyone keep asking me "What could be wrong?" I keep telling them sadly, my babies can't survive in me once they are made. Everyone thinks because I have PCOS it's hormonal related to PCOS. I keep telling them "No I'm able to get pg and it's not like my progesterone is low because we always find out the baby has no hb before the m/c or D&C has taken place." I hope you find some answers, and I pray one day I will too. Good luck today!