 writing back
Hey JustinD, I am known as TMotB hehe, we been dealing with the wonderful thing we love to call PCOS for about 3 years now 2 of which we did not have a name for meds to help her out. Many of the men on this board to include me troll the fourms for a fear of being flamed about one thing or another. And so some just dont like to talk about the things going on in thier live with there DW or DG. You will see there are times where we talk or leave posts but its to far in beteen. Just like there is a post atm there has nothing to do with getting a mans POV on the fourms that is to be help us ask questions or seek help with dealing with the emotions that we are going through. OK rant off.
let me start over,
I was station in Germany for awhile, we were trying to have our first baby which still has not come to pass but anyways. When my wife was finally seen she was told she would have to see an Endo but the AF would not see her any futher we would have to go to the next town and see a german nation docotor. Ok let me say there now I have nothing against Germans ok, It was the treatment of my beloved wife that made me upset. So we go and see that doctor that was not an Endo. He merly tells us she got a Tumor about the area where it could affect have kids. So know we are 3 months into this process and still no one wants to say she has PCOS or anything else. O and the Tumor is nothing to really worry about TG. Anyways now its on to the Endo and now 6 months later, still no meds for my DW, we had no idea what was going on but i could tell my BF my everything was being taken away from me and there was nothing i could do. Now we see the Endo she does some tests and in another month and in another town we are to see another doctor and they will tell us what is going on. Well long story short we got back to the States, ONE week later she saw an Endo here that been freaking god like, o yes you have pcos and here are meds and reading meteral for you. Him and this site saved my marrage. I love my wife, would not know what to do with out her but there was a time in Germany when either of us really knew what was going on I was about done. That another story for another time.
I hope other men will get on here and see some of this and be willing to share thier stoies. I think if there was a PW protected fourm that we could truely talk without our spouses seeing what we say be great. Cuase I know my wife knows my handle. And there are things and times I will not post. great meeting you and hope to talk more..TMotB |