Hi ladies, I usually lurk here and do not post much. I was devestated this week to learn that my baby passed. We went in for a scan at 9w2d and there was no HB. I had a D&C yesterday. Today I would have been 10weeks. I am so sad and feel wracked with guilt. Guilt because I was not on metformin or anything. I just read last night that 60% of women with PCOS miscarry in the first trimester. I new there was a chance - not that the odds were so high!! I have a 3 year old and he is my life - I conceived him after 5 years of TTC without any drugs or metformin. This after 4 IUI's - we were getting ready to start IVF and we got a big surprise. I feel like I was naive. My RE says these things happen but I feel so bad that maybe I could have done something.
I am terrified to try again.
I guess I just wanted to share my story.
Please tell me when this pain goes away.
What is awful is I still have awful pregnancy symptoms from nausea to sore breasts and the blue veins all over them. It's a cruel joke.