You can also try international adoption - they're always closed, and it's impossible for the biological parents to claim the child back.
My H had difficulty being convinced also. When I asked him why, he brought up that he was very concerned about a few things - one was real (we are taking steps to prevent it) and a few were misconceptions he had. Our adoption agency was able to set him straight. I put my foot down and let him know it's a dealbreaker - I was ready to walk. I think you should also find out whether it's that your H just doesn't want to adopt, or that he truly does not want children. |