I completely agree with Susan. Please also understand, that most people don't think they're bad parents (even when it's glaringly obvious to the rest of humanity). I would agree that maybe at this point, a Big Sister relationship is your best way to go to make a positive difference in this little girl's life.
And honestly, if you do try for custody of your cousin, be prepared to have that destroy your relationship with your aunt. I do agree that that home doesn't sound like a great place for a child, but aside from maybe the secondhand smoke and the hanging around with a teenage alkie, I'm not sure I'm hearing enough to merit complaints to CPS.
Good luck with whatever you decide. Your cousin is a lucky little girl to have you in her corner. |