Sometimes it can be tough. My wife and I are struggling with PCOS and wanting kids right now. It is especially tough when we go to family get-togethers and her un-deserving sister has two kids already. I love my wife more than anything. I want to support her and be there for her, but sometimes it is tough because I'm not a woman (thankfully, because I'd be one goofy looking woman at 6'6" 280) and I really have absolutely no understanding of what she is feeling and what she is thinking. She told me last night that it is "hard to feel like a woman when some of the pieces that make her a woman don't work". That was really hard to hear! I can't even imagine the pain and cofusion.
Well...I'm not the best at letting my feelings out, but thanks for listening (reading). |